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SPECIAL CLASSES AND EVENTS

SHABBAT SERVICES

Kabbalat Shabbat Services on Friday, August 20th, will begin at 6:30 pm in the Goldstine Sanctuary.

Shabbat Services, on Saturday, August 21st, will begin at 10:00 am in the Goldstine Sanctuary. Joryn West, daughter of Adam and Suzanne West, will come to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah.

The Shohet Daily Minyan will meet in the Goldstine Sanctuary on Sunday morning at 9:00 am, on Monday and Thursday mornings at 7:30, and on Tuesday, Wednesday, and Friday mornings at 7:45.

Kabbalat Shabbat Services on Friday, August 27th, will begin at 6:30 pm in the Goldstine Sanctuary.

Shabbat Services, on Saturday, August 28th, will begin at 10:00 am in the Goldstine Sanctuary. Lucie Ticho, daughter of Ben and Kathy Ticho, will come to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah.


ANNOUNCEMENTS

2011 Photo Directory: Schedule Photo Appointment

Our next directory will include photographs of the membership and we want everyone to be included. Each member will receive a free 8x10 professional photograph as a thank you gift for scheduling a portrait appointment and participating in the 2011 WSTHZ photo directory

· Photo sessions will be held in Gottlieb Hall on Sunday, October 10th and 24th, and Monday, October 11th, and 25th
· Daytime and evening appointments available
· Click the link to schedule your appointment or call the office at 708.366.9000

There is absolutely no cost to you or the synagogue. Your participation decreases our printing costs – the more members who are photographed, the lower our printing costs. Schedule your appointment now!

Questions? Contact Allyn Clemons at asclemons@yahoo.com or 708.524.2485



During August and September, many of our members will open their homes to host a Parlor Meeting for groups of our members to meet Rabbi Damsky, have a nosh, and ask questions. Please take advantage of this opportunity to meet Rabbi Damsky. Please contact Phyllis Baren for further information

Join us for a BBQ to welcome prospective members to WSTHZ on Sunday, August 22nd, at 5:30 pm. There will be fun activities for children and Rabbi Damsky will lead us in a preparation for the High Holy Days.

We are in need of people to deliver food on Sunday, August 29th, as part of the Maot Chitim effort. Please contact Carol Steinfeld, at cxstein@yahoo.com, or 312-751-2312, if you are able to participate in this mitzvah. This is the same day as the Torah Fund program but you will be back in time for that event.

"Love, Jewish Style" will be our Annual Torah Fund Event on Sunday, August 29th, at 2:00 pm. This concert will celebrate the Jewish perspective on love: romantic, familial, religious and otherwise. Our talented group of players, including Jerry Bloom, Lisa Browdy, Cantor Stewart Figa, Ricky Roth, and Marc Stopeck, will present a variety of songs and skits by Jewish authors and composers. Tickets are $18 and include a dessert reception after the show.

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SUBURBAN THURSDAY AFTERNOON RETIREES!

All Retirees Welcome
The afternoon is designed to get us to THINK!

A Joint Endeavor of Oak Park Temple and
West Suburban Temple

This is a joint endeavor of Oak Park Temple and West Suburban Temple. The group meets every Thursday, 1:00 -3:00 pm, at West Suburban Temple. We have a different topic chosen by the attendee who is responsible for that day's discussion. On August 19th, David Sokol, Professor Emeritus of Art History at UIC, and who has been the curator of the Otto Neumann estate for over thirty years, will talk about the artist's literary based art, and the complex experience he and his Jewish wife had during the Nazi era. For further information, contact Hene Waterbury, henerichard@earthlink.net, or Sheryl Stoller, sgstoller@yahoo.com.



School News: The first day of religious school is Sunday, September 19th. Parents and students are invited to Gottlieb Hall at 9:30 a.m. for a short assembly. Registration forms and calendars for both religious school and Tihon (high school) are on the website at www.wsthz.org. For religious school inquires, please call Alicia Gejman at 708-366-9000 or e-mail her at principal@wsthz.org.

Early Education News: Preschool classes resume on Tuesday, September 14th. Please contact Beth Chiet at bchiet@wsthz.org for more information.


THOUGHTS FROM OUR RABBI

Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway

This week I share with you the Jewels of Elul, words of philanthropist Eli Broad. As I mentioned last week, Jewels of Elul are writings from various individuals posted throughout the month of Elul in preparation for the High Holy Days. This year's "Jewels" are devoted to beginning again. Since the Days of Awe begin our new year they are a time for new beginnings in our life, these teachings are particularly apt. I will continue to share these teachings with you over the next few weeks as preparations for your personal experience of the High Holy Days.

Broad writes, "It seems I was born without the gene that makes a person afraid to try new things. I only know about this gene because I'm often asked, 'Weren't you afraid when you started (fill in the blank)?' The honest answer is always, 'No, I wasn't.' This isn't because I am fearless, it's merely because it never occurred to me to be afraid. I simply asked myself, 'What's the worst that can happen?'

Broad's perspective has a brilliance from which we can learn. How often do we walk through life with regret for choices we didn't make, choices we avoided because of our fear? I know I have, and here is one such story. I have always loved to sing. When I was in high school the choir teacher was formidable, but everyone loved her. In order to be in choir, one had to audition by sight reading a piece of music. To this day, my ability to read music is limited to counting the lines and spaces and figuring out the B from the G from the F. I do not sight read, and my ability to read music now is better than it was when I was fourteen. I used this as an excuse not to audition, however, because the truth was that I was paralyzed with fear at the idea of auditioning. What if she didn't like my voice and didn't let me in the choir? I could never overcome this fear. So for three years I watched my friends prepare music and sing in school performances, and I pined to have been up there with them. I missed out on great fun and an incredible educational opportunity. Who knows? If I had auditioned for the choir I might even have learned to sight read music. The good news is that I learned from this experience in my adult years, and auditioned to sing in a number of other performances. But I still missed out in my teen years.

Broad then adds a part of his personal journey. He says, "During my life, I have launched many initiatives, and I can tell you: Beginnings are best. They are moments of shining opportunity and exciting challenge. They are ventures into an unknown that you then get to shape. Thanks to the fact I was unconstrained by fear, I was able to create two Fortune 500 companies and am now, through our family's two foundations, working to improve K-12 education, discover cures for some of mankind's worst afflictions, and make the arts more accessible to more people.

"Of course," Broad continues, "all beginnings do not end in success, and I have had my share of disappointments. But even these have been successes of a sort. My initial hopes may not have been realized, but I was able to see how these concepts played out, learn from my mistakes, and then begin again. The answer to that question, 'What's the worst that can happen?' has always been, 'Not as bad as wondering 'what if?'' It's far better to pursue an idea, a dream, or a relationship that doesn't work out, than to spend your life adrift in an ocean of regret.

This conclusion is one that I have come to in my own life, but rather than having come to it with a beginner's sense of "What have I got to lose?" like Eli Broad did, I came to it after realizing that I would sacrifice too much if I didn't begin to take the chance. Eventually, I learned a lesson that Mr. Broad makes himself about fear. He states: "Indeed, assuming you possess that pesky gene that discourages beginnings, may I suggest you turn it on its head and use it to your advantage. The next time you find yourself not beginning something because you're afraid, simply view that fear as a certain sign that you should immediately roll up your sleeves ... and begin."

I have had compassionate mentors in life who have taught me this very lesson. Fear is a communicator. One teacher taught me that "fear is excitement waiting for the breath of life to be blown into it." It is often so that the thing we fear is the thing we absolutely must do to be proud of ourselves, to accomplish our goals, to make it to the next step in our journey. So if your fear is blocking you, I invite you to say to yourself, as one of my wise teachers taught me to say, "Oh, what the heck, go ahead and do it anyway! What have I got to lose?"

You have everything to gain. Make these next High Holy Days count as fully as they can by taking a risk to initiate your own set of new beginnings.

Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Robin


WEEKLY PORTION

August 21, 2010; 11 Elul 5770
Torah Reading: Deuteronomy 24:14-25:17, Page 1130
Haftarah Reading: Isaiah 54:1-10, Page 1138


PARSHA COMMENTARY

Parashat Ki Tetze
By: Rabbi Elliot N. Dorff
Relating to Non-Jews

This week's Torah reading includes several verses that define what the Israelites' relationship should be to several other nations:

No Ammonite or Moabite shall be admitted into the congregation of the Lord; none of their descendants, even in the tenth generation, shall ever be admitted into the congregation of the Lord because they did not meet you with food and water on your journey after you left Egypt and because they hired Balaam son of Beor ... to curse you....You shall not abhor an Edomite, for he is your kinsman. You shall not abhor an Egyptian, for you were a stranger in his land. Children born to them may be admitted into the congregation of the Lord in the third generation. (Deuteronomy 23:4-9)

The Torah was, of course, speaking only of some of the foreign nations with which the Israelites had had contact to that point. Later books of the Bible, and, even more, rabbinic texts over the last two thousand years speak in the context of Jews living in a widespread diaspora. They thus reflect the fact that Jews have interacted with non-Jews of many different religions - various sorts of pagans, Zoroastrians, Muslims, and Christians - who have related to Jews through many different political, economic, and religious arrangements. One does not have to adopt what Salo Baron termed "the lachrymose theory of Jewish history" to recognize that in most, but not all, times and places, Jews were treated badly. The position of Jews in Enlightenment countries, and especially modern America, is truly unprecedented, and it raises major questions of how to respond to both the blessings and curses of assimilation. The verses cited above already anticipate that our policies with regard to some other nations must be different from our policies with regard to others and that the differences center, at least in part, on our relationships with them and what they have done to or for us historically, but they could not have anticipated the Holocaust and all the ramifications of that horrible experience.

One significant community - indeed numbering a quarter to a third of the world's population - that has sought to come to terms with what it has done to us historically and to change that is the Catholic Church. This year marks the 45th anniversary of Nostra Aetate, the Second Vatican Council's document on the Church's relationships with other groups, including section 4 on its relationships to Judaism and the Jewish people. The relevant sections make four primary points:

1) The Covenant of God with the Jewish People remains in force:

As Holy Scripture testifies, Jerusalem did not recognize the time of her visitation,(9) nor did the Jews in large number, accept the Gospel; indeed not a few opposed its spreading.(10) Nevertheless, God holds the Jews most dear for the sake of their Fathers; He does not repent of the gifts He makes or of the calls He issues-such is the witness of the Apostle.(11) In company with the Prophets and the same Apostle, the Church awaits that day, known to God alone, on which all peoples will address the Lord in a single voice and "serve him shoulder to shoulder" (Soph. 3:9).(12)

This completely negates the long history of Christian supercessionism, in which the Church claimed that the coming of Christ invalidated the Old Covenant, which was now superseded by the New Covenant. In subsequent official documents of the Vatican and in statements of Popes John Paul II and Benedict XVI, this has meant that the Church has renounced missionizing Jews, the exact opposite of what it did for centuries, sometimes through the Crusades and the Inquisition, and what evangelical Christians proudly are trying to do to this day. In fact, it is precisely this policy of the Catholic Church that brought an abrupt end to the Catholic-Evangelical Dialogue that the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops had tried to initiate in the early 2000's.

2. Jews are not to be seen as Christ-killers:

True, the Jewish authorities and those who followed their lead pressed for the death of Christ;(13) still, what happened in His passion cannot be charged against all the Jews, without distinction, then alive, nor against the Jews of today

My father, who was born in Poland and who experienced this charge and its often violent aftermath first-hand, could not believe that the Church had taken this stance. He thought that either the newspaper must have reported it incorrectly or that we were entering Messianic times (mashiahzeit). Truthfully, this is nothing short of a Copernican revolution in the underlying foundations of Catholic-Jewish relations.

3. Anti-Semitism is not to be encouraged or even tolerated:

Furthermore, in her rejection of every persecution against any man, the Church, mindful of the patrimony she shares with the Jews and moved not by political reasons but by the Gospel's spiritual love, decries hatred, persecutions, displays of anti-Semitism, directed against Jews at any time and by anyone.

Later Pope John Paul II was actually to call anti-Semitism a "sin."

4. The Church must work toward greater understanding and cooperation:

Since the spiritual patrimony common to Christians and Jews is thus so great, this sacred synod wants to foster and recommend that mutual understanding and respect which is the fruit, above all, of biblical and theological studies as well as of fraternal dialogues.

These paragraphs come from a Councilar document; there is no higher authority in the Catholic Church. What, though, shall we make of all this 45 years later? As Jews, we are wary of lip service and want to see what people who proclaim noble ideals actually have done to realize them.

Not surprisingly for such a major change of close to 2,000 years of thought and practice, the record is mixed. Pope John Paul II recognized the State of Israel politically, visited Israel and publicly asked for forgiveness at the Western Wall, and visited the synagogue in Rome as a guest seeking good relations. The Vatican has issued several official documents since 1965 that spell out how these principles are to be carried out in the Church's liturgical and educational publications. In some dioceses, cardinals have made these statements the center of considerable time and energy. In Los Angeles, the largest diocese in the United States, Cardinal Manning initiated the Priest-Rabbi Dialogue in cooperation with the Board of Rabbis of Southern California in 1973 and a parallel dialogue of lay leaders, and his successor, Cardinal Mahony, has, if anything, intensified these efforts in the schools and the seminary of the archdiocese during the last 25 years. On the other hand, when I taught a group of seminarians in Crackow, Poland - the native city of Pope John Paul II, who did so much to act on improving relationships with the Jewish community - the very first question I was asked when I opened the floor to any question they had on their minds was "Why did the Jews kill Christ?" I was frankly glad this young man had asked me the question because I knew that many others in that group of 50 young seminarians wanted to ask the same thing. After all, the Good Friday liturgy that he had heard since childhood repeats the Gospel story in which "the Jews" tell Pontius Pilate to kill Jesus. The fact that Cardinal Marshasky had invited me to speak with his seminarians is testimony to his intention to carry out the mandate of the Council, but the seminarian's question indicates how far the Catholic Church has to go to get this message across in the wide diaspora that is Catholic Christianity.

In the early 1990s, the priests on the Priest-Rabbi Dialogue in Los Angeles asked us rabbis what it would take for the Jewish community to forgive Catholics for what the Church did and failed to do during the Holocaust. We soon realized that because all the priests and rabbis around the table were either born after 1945 or were young children then, the priests did not have the moral standing to ask for forgiveness for what they themselves had not done, and the rabbis did not have the standing to grant it, even if we wanted to do so. We instead began to talk about what reconciliation would mean - and what the Catholic Church would need to do to warrant that. I discuss this at some length in my book To Do the Right and the Good: A Jewish Approach to Modern Social Ethics in the chapter entitled "Communal Forgiveness," in which I distinguish among forgiveness, reconciliation, and pardon; develop a new, communal model for forgiveness; and discuss the grounds that would warrant communal forgiveness. One then, of course, has to determine whether the Catholic Church - or any other group - has done what is necessary to warrant forgiveness - or whether we have done so when we Jews have harmed other groups.

This week's Torah reading asks us seriously to consider our relationships with non-Jewish groups of people and to develop policies that befit both our history with each of them and the present realities of our relationships with each of them. In this month of Elul, when we focus on our individual sins, ask forgiveness from those we have offended, and seek to improve in the coming year, we must also consider how we carry out this process on a communal level. May we do so with the intellectual, emotional, and religious rigor that is modeled for us in its earliest stages in this week's Torah reading, and may we learn when and how to forgive in our personal and communal lives.

Shabbat Shalom.



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